Saturday, June 19, 2010

Party

I love weekends. We got to sleep in a bit today. Then after getting ready Emily and I went to Jackson's birthday party. It was the first time Gma Newman's waterslide was pulled out this year. The kids loved it and also enjoyed splashing around in the little pool. After a pinata and presents we sang and had a spiderman cake.
Later we ran errands and Jacob got to sit in the cart like a big boy. I can't believe how quickly he's growing up. After dinner went for a visit to Gma Holbrook's for a popsicle and then decided to take a drive up to Mike & Niki's new house. It was beautiful. We're so excited for them. We ended the night, as usual, checking on the kids. Both were laying sideways. It made me smile.

Friday, June 18, 2010

Popcorn

Today I changed sheets, emailed 5 different people about cubscouts, talked to a good friend that I haven't talked to in months - it was SO good to finally catch up Sara! - wrapped father's day and birthday presents, picked up the office, went to the park, and snuggled on the couch and ate popcorn with Jeff. Mmm, the last part was my favorite.

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Whew!

The past 7 days I have:

finished cleaning out closets and organizing kids clothing
finally dusted my house and cleaned bathrooms
met with two brides for wedding flowers
scheduled appointments with two other brides
ran errands to 10 different stores
kissed jacob a million times
planned, prepared & conducted 3 primary meetings

read books with emily
prepared to throw a baby shower
bought emily's birthday presents
taken pictures of emily & jacob
posted on my ridiculously outdated blog
went on a date with jeff
made emily's birthday party invites and mailed
registered for swimming lessons
made cookies
made a note to sign up for soccer and ballet before the next session fills up
went to the grocery store 3 times
thought and pondered and prayed about who to call to numerous primary positions
planned jeff's birthday and party
dug through hiding place to find his birthday gift that I hid 2 months ago
posted on incredibly outdated flower blog
found birthday gift for mom
shopped for father's day gifts
found birthday present for nephew
found birthday present for niece
checked completely overspent budget - dang all those june birthdays!
washed, dried, folded and put away 8 loads of laundry
squeezed in reading of incredibly good book that I can't renew
went to lagoon
finished cleaning out the primary closet
talked to sisters and mom ... numerous times
talked to friend for the first time in months
smelled the rain

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I have a tendancy to get caught up in my 'to do' lists and forget about the important things. There are brief times when I can put things aside and just enjoy the sweet moments. But the majority of the time I become overwhelmed with all I have to do and all that I'm not getting done and I get so frustrated and stressed that I just don't take the time to enjoy the good things. I decide to let Emily watch one more "Tigger and Pooh" so I can fold one more load of laundry or check my email. I don't think that makes me a horrible person. I just unfortunately miss the opportunity to play with Emily. And who knows how much longer she'll want to play with me.

A friend was just diagnosed with cancer. Hopefully treatable and not too life threatening. But still earth shattering. She says that her whole perspective on life has changed. I can see why. Her news has made me stop and realize how many of the good, small, sweet and simple things I take for granted and/or miss.

I want to start making a daily post on my joys for the day and in so doing I will be forced to stop and remember to smell the roses. Because if I'm held accountable here and know others will be 'checking up on me', then maybe I'll remember that sitting outside and eating popsicles with Emily is sometimes more important than running numbers for a flower quote.

6 Months

I can't believe my little guy is already 6 months old! Where has the time gone? He has been such a joy and so fun to get to know. I am so in love with his smile, his smell, his laugh, his slobbery kisses, his pouty face, his chubby legs and hands and his happy disposition. (As is evidenced below - one second crying, the next a big smile).
So, as predicted, Jacob learned to sit before rolling. On May 26th he sat for the first time (for a significant duration that is) and he's been doing it ever since. He LOVES to sit and definitely prefers it to laying down. Then 3 days after his sitting success he completed a stomach-to-back roll. He is now rolling back to front too, however that way is rare.
A few of my other recent loves for the month: Jacob is talking and laughing a lot more. He has noticed his tongue and likes to play with it and stick it out all the time. He plays with his feet all the time and seems to have to always be holding something - my finger, his toes, my hair, Emily's hair, a toy, his burp cloth, his sippy cup, his bib, his paci. He loves to wave his burp cloth around while taking his bottle. He is such a little social bug and adores kids and babies - especially Emily. He loves to grab faces and try to eat you. He still is enamored with Emily and just lights up when he sees her.




We all sure love our little man and I definitely can't get enough of him.

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

One Year Older & Wiser Too

Last Thursday was Jeff's birthday. I spent the morning getting kids ready, running to the store, and putting together chicken salad sandwiches. Then the kids and I met Jeff at work and we walked over to Wheeler Farm for a picnic lunch. It was great weather, great food, and even better company. We love seeing daddy during the day. It was fun to just relax and spend time together.
After we ate we gave Jeff his birthday presents - "The Blindside" DVD and Mario Party 8 for the Wii. Then Jeff played soccer with the kids and Jacob had his first experience with grass.
That night we got together with friends from our ward. We had pizza, homemade root beer, and pie from Marie Callenders. In order to accomodate everyone we had the party at my parents house. We jumped on the tramp and played Jeff's new Wii game on the big screen. It was fun to spend time with good friends and to celebrate Jeff. He is such a good husband and father. We're so lucky to have him. We love you Jeff!

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Soon Is A Relative Term, Right?

We flew out to Norfolk, VA on May 13th. The kids were REALLY good on the flight. Jacob briefly fussed twice, but other than that was happy to look out the window, grab his sister's hair, eat, and sleep. I was pleasantly surprised at what a great flight it was and how much I was able to read. One downside was that we didn't get in till about 11pm and to our hotel till about midnight. The airline misplaced our stroller so Jeff stayed at the airport getting our rental car and getting the stroller issue worked out while Dave came and picked the kids and me up so I could get them to bed. Even with Dave's generosity, I don't think beds were prepped, jammies on, and kids asleep till 1am. It was one late night and we ALL passed out. Friday we were up and going early. We spent our first day driving to Williamsburg to go to Busch Gardens. Emily was very excited to see Ella and go on rides. Her enthusiasm quickly died after a couple hours though. It was HOT! Jacob drank an entire sippy cup full of water while we were there and we were all hot and sticky. After eating lunch in the shade and cooling down a bit, Emily was ready for round two and enjoyed a few more rides. We ended the day with a popsicle for Emily and a funnel cake - with ice cream - for Jeff and me.
Saturday morning we were up early once again to get ready for Brad's graduation from Eastern Virginia Medical School. I think we were all rushed to get there, however not quite as rushed as Stan & Melanie. Heidi was just learning to walk and they were so rushed they were just letting her play and she fell and hit her lip. Unfortunately they ended up missing the graduation and spent the next 5 hours in the ER getting stitches. I guess Heidi is officially a Holbrook now. I just hope Maggie and Jacob decide not to follow the other three girls examples. Congrats Brad!!!
After the graduation we ran errands and packed up to head down to Outer Banks, North Carolina. We were all so excited to get there and to spend a week relaxing on the beach. And the rainy weather made sure we got plenty of the relaxing part and but not the sunburned part. Fortunately there was an indoor pool, racquetball, and wallyball, not to mention the collection of games we all brought, to help fill the rainy hours.

All of the cousins had a blast together and loved every minute of the trip. They laughed, cried, built cushion forts, wouldn't share toys, threw fits, then shared toys, went on walks, splashed in the ocean, built sandcastles, read books, and giggled like crazy.
The sun did eventually come out and we spent the last three days playing in the sun.

Jacob LOVED his first experience with the ocean and the sand

Our last night at the beach house we grilled hamburgers, had smores, and birthday cake for Stan. I think we'd all agree that the week went by way too quickly and we could have used several more days at the beach and together. THANK YOU! THANK YOU! Dave and Arline for planning and taking us all on such a wonderful trip. We enjoyed every minute and appreciate your generosity.

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Coming Soon...

We had a very enjoyable trip to the beach. Details and plenty more pictures to come.

Saturday, May 29, 2010

Farewells

It's hard to believe that Emily's first year of school has already come and gone. Last Thursday was her last day of preschool. I co-oped that day and was there to snap some pics. The kids were so cute and Emily has learned so much this year. I'm excited for the break this summer and for all the fun things we get to do. I'm grateful for what a wonderful teacher she had and for the great friends we've made.
Last week we also had another goodbye. My little sister, Lisa, and her husband, Spencer, have now officially left the state of Utah and are trekking across the country to their new home in New Hampshire. It was an emotional week for us all. We had our last Sunday dinner together (at least for the next 5 years) last week. We got together again Wednesday night for a final goodbye. To help them on the road we gave them lots of snacks and to help them with moving so far away we put together two books. Jenn made herself sick by practically staying up all night two nights in a row to finish putting together a book of letters and memories that we had all sent her; and a second book of pictures. They were both so nice and were perfect gifts to help Spence and Lis remember all the little kids (and the rest of us).

The girls - oh, we have so much fun. It's going to be so hard to not have Lisa here with us. Thank heavens it's not a permanent move - right Spencer???

I love you guys and will miss you terribly. We can't wait to come see you!

Thursday, May 13, 2010

5 Months

Jacob's monthly post is again late. Life has gotten pretty hectic but I wanted to post his accomplishments so I'd remember them. He is growing up so fast! He's getting closer and closer to sitting every day. He is still loving food and growing like a weed. He completely adores his big sister and watches whatever she does. Emily can always make him smile. For the most part he's napping well and still sleeping through the night. He got sick and was really stuffy and just wasn't sleeping as well a little bit ago. It reminded me what it was like to have a newborn and man, I'm glad we're past that stage. Although I didn't mind all the extra cuddle time.

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

I Do...

Well, it's wedding season and to kick it all off I had two family weddings a week apart. Jeff's cousin, Sarah, got married the end of April. Sarah lucked out and had the one gorgeous day that was sandwiched between numerous days of rain. Everything turned out beautiful. We're so excited for Garrett and Sarah. They're perfect for each other. Congrats you guys!May 1st Jeff's sister, Niki, got married - and I was a lot more invovled with this one. The day was pretty much non-stop for me. Actually, everything started on Friday when I went and picked up the flowers, then I squished in a wedding dinner, and topped the night off with staying up till 1am finishing everything. Thanks heavens we didn't have to get to the temple till 10 the next morning. Saturday we dropped the kids off at my parents - again - and attended the ceremony downtown. Niki looked beautiful. I love seeing how happy Niki and Mike are together. Niki & Mike with all of the nieces... and the one nephew
After the temple I briefly stopped home to load up my car and headed off to the Alumni House to get ready for the reception. It was a whirlwind of a night and I've decided that next time a sibling gets married I'm having a babysitter come to help with the kids. I was so busy with everything I didn't take any pictures of the flowers. Thank heavens the photographer will share with me. I snapped just a couple during a 10 minute period and then didn't touch my camera the rest of the night. I didn't even get one of my two cute kids together. Oh well. It all turned out beautifully and we're so happy to have Mike in the family. He's a great brother-in-law and an even better uncle. Congrats Mike & Niki!